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Monday, June 6, 2011

PARENTS' LOVE

Monday 6th of June 2011, 7.30pm

Maybe, i have heard "Parents' love is so deep that they could sacrifice their life to their children" is about 1000 times or more...maybe, i also said that to my daughter, to my brother, to anyone else so many times in the past.....but.....tonight.....i saw with my own eyes...i saw their love with my heart....so beautiful..and ironic....(sadly)

This person is my wife relation, she had this cancer for a period of time till now, she have went to china to have a treatment but i think it's only delayed the cancer for a while.

Tonight, we visited her in Husada Utama Hospital. I saw a person who is fighting her cancer, lying in bed with respirator to help her breathe, her skin turn to yellow (maybe she had her liver's activity is down), cannot move, cannot speak, hardly open her eyes...so sad...
but, in her side, her dad sitting in a wheelchair holding the rosary, keep praying for her. Her mom is still healthy, standing beside her bed, praying, motivating her, keeping her comforted, trying so hard to be tough.

What making my heart melted was that her mom's motivating words.....she said (more or less) "Tjuan, if you're cannot holding any longer, you can let it go, in peace", with giving her daughter a gentle caress, and she continued, "everything will be okay, let peace be in your mind. Your child is grown up and we got them taking care, your sister and your team will handle your work...it's nothing to worry about, tjuan.... you can let them go, you can let us go", " your parent is forgiving you already and we know that you had forgive us too, so you may rest in peace..."

Her parents is Praying for her BEST....her parents have their mental ready for the worst thing....so strong, their faith is so BIG....so wonderful...but so sad....so ironic....